Over the years, I have been bullied, ridiculed, judged, talked about, picked on, viewed as too happy, and much more.

Bullies have aggressive behavior and are in all walks of life. They do not want to face their wrongdoing and create stories about people they choose to bully to make them feel isolated and alone.

It takes one person who is not confident to use his/her influence or leadership role to spread their negative infectious behavior on others.

The bully causes harm to others who are not strong and feel they have the right to bully by using their power to tear down others’ character.

I attended a function in 2018 and sat at a table with eight people and attempted to engage in conversation. It did not matter how nice I was; only one person acknowledged me. The other seven acted as if I was invisible because of the influence the leader had over them from the stories the leader created about me from her insecurities.

Showing kindness is who I am as an individual with no facade; therefore, I continued to be myself. Being accepted by negative people is not necessary to enjoy events because being devoted to self will not allow others to inject their unhappiness.

Today, I am a confident, secure, and self-assured woman. We all have some of the same issues and need to share and express our emotions.

Because of my positive qualities and determination, I wanted to make a difference and started this blog to help others by providing a platform for communication in life. I am available and listening.