At some point in life, we all:
- Hide, mask and disguise the true self.
- Lack confidence.
- Experience anxiety.
- Deal with feelings of not meeting parents’ expectations.
- Try and understand the sense of not belonging or fitting in.
- Explore for answers to reasons we need someone to complete us.
To begin dealing with insecurities, we must know life is not always 100 percent and acknowledge there is something beautiful we can focus on to boost our confidence. It could be something small or something significant. It could be the goals that were set and accomplished, the hair, eyes, legs, arms, butt, chest, etc. Trust me, there is something positive to pay attention to change the state of mind and the current mood. Be aware of the attitudes that contributes to the negative energy and release, release to allow the positive energy to flow like water.
We make decisions and act out in the world from the stories that we create about ourselves, and we attract those types of people in our lives. If we believe we are not good enough from the stories created, we draw the people who do not feel good enough, and no one in that environment will grow and develop self-esteem.
There will always be some insecurities because nothing is 100 percent, but we can grow and learn to deal with insecurities. We can create new stories to mature mentally and attract good energy.
I have said in past blogs we get out of the world what we put in the world.
Here are a few examples of paying attention to:
- If I drink daily, I attract people who drink daily, and no one in the group will learn to position themselves in a higher state.
- If I have negative thoughts daily, I attract people who have negative thoughts, and negative conversations about others occupy the time.
- If I live from paycheck to paycheck and shop often, I attract people who live the same, and no one can help the other person when in need.
- If I continue to have conversations about the body not feeling good or ill, I attract sick people and discuss different medications, and no one gets healthier.
- If I overeat and make excuses about working out, I attract the same and never learn the benefit of having a healthy lifestyle.
There are so many examples, but I am sure the message is clear.
Dealing with insecurities is not easy as life is not always happy yet life is a beautiful, incredible journey. It takes work, and challenges are a part of life. Release the fear and know the outcome of our life is every decision we make, so let’s not blame others and accept the mistakes made to move forward.
As always, how will you rise? I am here and listening.
Love this content! Completely agree. We have to begin with the changes to in ourselves before we can become successful in changing our environment. Thanks for your insights
Keep up the great advice my sister. Love you girl and so proud of you.